Discretion & Privacy Controls
Take absolute control over your parlor presence. Toggle how you appear, what details others can see, and browse entirely on your own terms.
Browse Incognito
Completely hide your profile from all Discovery feeds. You will only appear to members whom you have explicitly liked first. Standard browsing is fully anonymous.
Visible in the LoungeWhen toggled off, your card is hidden from discovery so you can browse matches in absolute quiet.
Share Online StatusAllow matches to see when you are currently active in the lounge.
Show Last Active TimeLet matches see broad indicators of when you were last online (e.g., Active today).
Show Broad Proximity DistanceLet others see approximate distance calculations. Your exact neighborhood map is never shared.
Message Read ReceiptsToggle whether matches see exactly when you open and read their messages.